The checklist is a simple list of fetishes and kinks.For each item note how you feel: Let her know if you see D/s as a lifestyle or a form of play. The more honestly felt words you present about yourself the better your chances of meeting a compatible Domme.
Example: an "accessible van" means that there is a wheel chair lift and handrails so that persons with disabilities may be able to get in and out of the van.
You do read stories of women who reduce men to 24/7 sissymaids and permanent cuckolds.
Often I've suspected these were men living out their fantasies by creating an online faux-Domme persona that enforces them.
Assertive Community Treatment (ACT) is a model of mental health care.
ACT services are available to a person with serious mental health conditions as needed and on a regular basis in the community.