I dated quite a few younger men in my 40s (I just turned 50).And when I say “dated,” I do mean that these relationships went well beyond the stereotypical one-night-stand “boytoy” liaison.Yes, I had no problems engaging in the wild experimentation you’re supposed to explore at that age, like threeways and bisexual liaisons, but I still felt insecure about my body.I held repressed preconceived notions like “cunnilingus is GROSS.” And while you’d have to confirm this with my college boyfriend, I’m pretty sure I was clueless about how to give a good blowjob.
My first younger boyfriend and I didn’t break up because of these issues, interestingly enough.
I know I definitely started having better sex in my 40s than anytime before.
When I was in my 20s, I was truthfully a neurotic mess when it came to sex.
Or a boon to the still-attractive woman who may have been dumped by her husband for younger?
Because now she can, post-divorce, go have the best sex of her life with sexy, taut younger men?