“I believe the relationship theory of love languages are very relevant to finding your perfect match, but not in the way that most people assume,” senior matchmaker and dating coach Lori Salkin tells Bustle.
“People do not need to speak the same love language to succeed as a couple, rather they need to understand the love language their significant other speaks.
Personality quizzes are a guilty pleasure of — well, of a lot of people.
The frivolous, the serious, the downright bizarre, they're fun and they give you a chance at some insight into yourself that you might not otherwise find.
They can be used as a tool to communicate with your partner about your needs, desires and personality quirks.
But, if you are trying to decide if you two are compatible long-term, these are the hard questions you should ask. If you and your partner want to see what this quiz says your kinks are, it's worth it.Even if you're single, plenty of relationship quizzes can shed light on how you approach dating.Although it's best to take them with a pinch of salt. If the result you get from a personality quiz is a useful lens for you to learn more about yourself, how to care for yourself, or how to build stronger relationships, then enjoy!"Understanding type is an eye-opening factor because it helps to understand where that person is coming from, and what their preferences are," Jan Tanaka, a Certified MBTI Practitioner, tells Bustle."It [can help] spark a discussion about where you can flex style to someone else, and how the other person can flex style to effectively communicate with you."If you find it helpful to focus on the positive, then Strengths Finder 2.0 might be the right option for you.