To her, it is her job, and an everyday occurrence that she talks to people about. If you happen to stay in a committed relationship during "the match," aka when med students find out what specialty and residency they will be working, be prepared to move with her. I've talked to aspiring surgeons who told me not to date aspiring surgeons, so I know what I'm talking about) and you'll be fine.10.
This is actually great since you are a human with a normal body and honestly, everyone should feel this OK about these things.8. The field is damn competitive, and every spot for residency is coveted. Find one who is more laid-back (aka, not any type of aspiring surgeon. Medical residents work 24-hour shifts that may turn into 28 or 30 hours.
Because even once she finishes finals, there's always another final. And then a presentation and an oral exam and a 500-page review textbook to read.
If she gets a muffin at 6 every morning from the same place and you ask her to try a new place, she might have a breakdown, so just accept it and move on.6. Whether it's a cool patient she saw that day, a surgery she observed, the size and quality of a poop her patient had (no, but seriously, check out the Bristol stool scale), you'll hear about it.
If she has Saturday off after working a 24-hour day Friday, yeah, she's not going to wake up and go to brunch Saturday because she will be in bed all day.11. This will push you to work your hardest and to be your best, which is second nature for her.
This also means she to sleep, and often at weird hours.
Unless it's the day after a 24-hour call day, in which case haha, no, she already fell asleep. Plan every date at least 10 years in advance, if possible. She gives terrifying new meaning to the term "type A." Med students and doctors generally have some form of OCD or, at the very least, a seriously regimented routine, and you better get used to it because she is physically and emotionally incapable of altering it in any way.
If your throat hurts or your back is spasming or even if you have a small paper cut, you will automatically assume she can fix it with her med student magic.
Your SO may feel like you’re not as good of a catch anymore, you don’t help around the house as much, you’re never home, you are always tired; you may even be more grouchy.
How relationships can hurt med school Excelling in medical school takes focus, dedication, and a whole lot of effort.