– Wounded heart produces scars, bitterness and insecurities. DO not hasten to jump into marriage or into any forms of relationship.
– Conscience is generally defiled and seared by impurity. 4.) DO NOT PURSUE A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO MARRY! You are young and you can use your talents for service in God.
First of all, Muslim youth develop very close friendships with their same-sex peers.
This "sisterhood" or "brotherhood" that develops when they are young continues throughout their lives, and serves as a network to become familiar with other families.
We see broken families, adultery, divorce and abortion and we think it’s normal. Television, movies, worldly music, worldly ideas on love and romance and novels all are major destroyers of family ties.
These things glamorizes sin, promotes vices like drinking and smoking, ridicules modesty and all christian graces, it pictures sin as exciting and romantic, it instigates rebellion and animosity in the family, it promotes lewdness and sexual promiscuity. These days the youth cannot even distinguish love from lust? They seem to think that if it feels good, and it feels right then it must be right. Here are some myths that all christian youth should be aware of: Myth #1: I need a boyfriend or girlfriend to overcome my loneliness and fulfill my social needs.
There are thousands that are mated but not matched.
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” Proverbs 3:5 Love, courtship and marriage.
A very sensitive and important topic for the SDA youth out there.
I have been asked quite a number of times in regard to this matter as well….
When a young person decides to get married, the following steps often take place: This type of focused courtship helps ensure the strength of the marriage by drawing upon family elders' wisdom and guidance in this important life decision.
Family involvement in the choice of a marriage partner helps assure that the choice is based not on romantic notions, but rather on a careful, objective evaluation of the compatibility of the couple.