I also found it interesting that when I wasn't doing anything with the Sorors, he was always out with his friends and they would come to me saying how he was complaining that we didn't spend enough time together.
It wasn't like he didn't know well in advance that I'd be in a meeting.
I've dated a greek man before and I know that he understood why I won't just blow off a sorority meeting and how it's not just a 'college thing' because he has the same commitments.
My last boyfriend was non-greek and never seemed to understand these concepts.
For those of you that have dated greek men, do you find them to be any different than men who are non-greek?
Is it different to date a greek man if you are greek yourself versus being a non greek dating a greek man? I am just asking because generally I have found greek men to be very immature..then there have been those that do a 360 on you after becoming greek and discovering that there are fraternity groupies out there..are a completely different person after they cross! My replies will all be related to my experiences in dating two Greeks. I truly believe that dating a Greek man is no different than dating a non Greek.
Carla From my experience, (duh, who else's experience would I be talking about) yes, it is different being greek and dating a man/woman who is greek as opposed to being a non-greek dating a greek.
He is smart, takes care of himself inside and out, and always is willing to go the extra mile to help someone else.
The only difference is that they now have 3 letters across their chest.
Both Greeks and non Greeks (the ones I know and have affiliated myself with) have problems with commitment especially while still in college or immediately after crossing.
I remember one of the boyfriends I had who was not greek.
We used to fight constantly about why I was doing so much with my Sorors, and I'm not talking about general hanging out and partying.