A., with the entertainment business and Wall Street…you get a lot of maximizers' [people who keep looking over their shoulder for something better]. They will be just as picky in a bad and unhealthy way. The men who are actually available and wanting commitment and who are smart and funny and cute—maybe one guy is a little bit shorter, so he's not getting the women. I'm saying, you don't have to do anything differently if you don't want.But if you feel like it hasn't been working and you're wondering why you haven't met Mr. It's less about what you wear or do on a date than it is about having healthier standards.
"I don't want the takeaway to be, pick the next guy off of and marry him.These guys are all around you but you're not giving them a chance. We feel entitled.*Gottlieb: "Women try to be good friends to each other. He said, what you think of as quirky, endearing, and cute, is really annoying to someone else. You find something great, but you wonder if there's something better out there, so you keep searching.But he would love you so much that he would overlook that. In the end, after three more weeks of searching for the perfect sweater—was it so much better than the one you could have bought originally? Gottlieb: "The guys I interviewed for the book said women judge them so much.I thought the "nice guy" was an extinct species as imaginary as Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny.But then I recently encountered a mythical gentleman.