Some couples even start to merge, and start to feel like one person.There’s no space for desire to build when you’re always around each other.What To Do About It: It’s important for every couple to maintain separate lives outside of the relationship.No matter how in love you are or how much you enjoy each other’s company, go out on your own with your friends. Give each other private time in the apartment to do your own thing.When you move in together, you remove those obstacles and that excitement.
You have to figure out where to put two sets of belongs in your new space ...
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Why It Happens: When you move in with someone, you get exposed to all the non-sexy details of day to day life. What To Do About It: It’s great to feel comfortable around your partner, but try to maintain some air of privacy and distance, especially with your bodily functions. It’s also worth trying to make an effort to look good around your partner. Not only will your partner get turned on, but you’ll feel sexier too.
Keep the door closed when you go to the bathroom, and turn on music to block the noise. It’s fine to kick back in sweatpants, but some days try keeping on your cute clothes. Why It Happens: Some people can be up for sex at the drop of a hat, but many people like to feel a little prepared.