In a clear, biblical, and entertaining manner, De Young shows how so many people are so wrong in the way they think about God’s will.
“With pastoral wisdom and tasteful wit, De Young debunks unbiblical ways of understanding God’s will and constructs a simple but biblical alternative: live like Christ.
It means dating someone who meets the values and goals you have for a future spouse (more on that later).
Dating with a trajectory towards marriage means dating with a purpose. Without a Christian spouse, one of two things will happen: you will drift away from God or your spouse will become a functional god (more on this later). There is another dangerous mentality in Christian circles I want to address…”flirting to convert.” Look…Christians are called to be missionaries. The dating world, however, is not the place to be a missionary. What’s vitally important is not which – but rather, to not opt for Pharisaical rules but find Biblical principles.These books have been carefully selected from many writings on the topic, to point families to the resources that are solidly biblical in their approach to boy-girl relationships and which will help them prepare for a long and solid marriage.