It was freshman year and we were in the same english class.I was already nervous about even being in high school, but seeing her almost instantly magnified my nerves.When a guy wants something – he’s going to go after it. So if he’s not spending time with you, hanging around, and making excuses to hang out with you… If he wants you, he knows that he has to spend time with you and be around you in order to get closer to you. I couldn’t tell you a single word of my trigonometry textbook from 11th grade math class – because it wasn’t important to me.when is he going to have the opportunity to try to get closer to you? So if he’s not hanging around, or hanging out with you, or even showing up in your life – he’s not trying to go after you… But I can tell you exactly where I was and what I was doing the first time a girl ever told me she loved me (Cindy Rosen, listening to Bruce Springsteen…And they’re able to sniff one out from a mile away. If that doesn’t sound simple – think about it this way. You’re laughing, you’re having a good time, you’re relaxed and comfortable… All of a sudden, the whole dynamic is probably going to change for you (unless you have the coolest boss in the world).So if he’s interested in you, he’s going to be hypersensitive to the idea that anyone else is interested in you… Obviously, he’s not going to because you mentioned another guy, but if he likes you, he’s definitely going to have some sort of reaction. When a guy is into you – he feels differently about you than other people. You’re going to reign yourself in, watch what you’re saying way more, and in general become way less relaxed. Because you care about what your boss thinks about you!
If he’s not curious about your life anymore, it’s a strong sign he’s losing interest.
Eventually I mustered up the courage to talk to her.
She wound up being an amazing girl who I still talk to this day.
Because your subconscious is controlling what you remember and don’t remember, you can get a good feel for what’s important to someone deep down in their subconscious by paying attention to what they remember and don’t remember.
Simply put: if your subconscious decides something is important, you’re going to remember it.